Is it? I figured it was a term for places where everyone drinks tea and wears monocles. [And apparently Sela was too done with him to explain it to him.]

You're a virgin, I don't expect you to be into lap dances and such. Personally I'm not much into all the teasing. [That sure says a lot about him.] Say, how are you ever going to have sex anyway? I mean, you hate smells and touches, doesn't that mean you're gonna be a virgin for life?